Master Hongyi icon said: "If you are practicing, you must remember not to let anyone consume your energy. Don't force others to wake up, not even your relatives. Everyone has their own calamity to overcome, no matter who they are, If there is a destiny, I can ask you and I can cross it; if there is no destiny, just watch him say nothing."

No matter who they are, they are just passers-by in our lives. Those who cannot be retained will not be retained, and those who cannot be persuaded will not be persuaded. As long as we are ourselves, we are already very good.
Because everyone has their own life scenery, and they are all different, and they do not need to be the same, and they cannot be the same. It is the unique personality and life experience that constitutes the different wonderful life of everyone.
If we understand our lives, we will not interfere in other people's lives. Only by our own enlightenment and awakening can we, ordinary people, know how to walk with others.
In this world, everyone is an isolated individual, and they all live in loneliness. They have their own three views, different beliefs and life concepts. Life is a practice, and everyone is in their own world. perfect yourself.
There is a passage that says it well: "Cognitions are not at the same level, and there is no need to conquer each other. The adult world only screens, not educates; only chooses, not changes. Everyone is paying for their own cognition throughout their lives. .”
Everyone has their own understanding, their own path in life, and they all practice life in their own way.
When we reach a certain age, our understanding of life and the world has been finalized, and we have our own outlook on life and values, which cannot be changed by others.
Therefore, we cannot demand others with our own life standards, nor can we force others with our own ideas. We can only choose and screen without conquering, because everyone in the world has a crossing and a return boat.
A smart person only knows how to change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed. He also knows how to understand the suffering of others and not to persuade others to be good.
We often use self-righteous ways to persuade others. In fact, these are just our own ideas and do not represent correct views. We should not impose it on others, otherwise it will cause pain and internal friction between each other.
Everyone in the world has his own sufferings and his own good points. Everyone has his own sufferings that he needs to endure and his own happiness. We should not think about saving anyone, because I am not the savior.
Life is short, no matter who you are, you need to experience pain in this journey of life and then wake yourself up.
You can only walk your own path. Even if the road ahead is confusing, you can only explore it yourself. Others cannot experience it for you.
We respect and respect ourselves, and other people’s ways have nothing to do with us. Be yourself and leave a certain amount of free space between each other. Only distance can produce beauty.
Sanmao once said: "You often cannot find things you deliberately look for. Just be yourself. Everything in the world comes and goes in its own time."
Everyone has their own beliefs and ideals, and they will grow and awaken through their own experiences. We should not affect the pace of others, but we should not let others consume our energy.
If you are someone who understands you, there is no need to teach you. If you are someone who doesn't understand you, it can only affect and consume your energy. Therefore, do not cultivate yourself in others' hearts, and do not force others in your own hearts.
What we need to do is let others have their own lives without disturbing them, respect other people's ideas and concepts, and be tolerant and understanding, rather than blindly asking others to be like us.
Be lenient to others and be strict with yourself. Only in this way can you live in harmony with others, constantly improve yourself, and become what you like.
As someone said: "No flower is a flower in the beginning, and no flower is still a flower in the end."
Therefore, everyone is growing and maturing in their own way, which is the highest state of self-improvement. Since we can't change others, we should be alone in our own world. Everyone has their own growth process. Don't expect others to be the same as you.